Friday, November 18, 2016

Youth, Manos, baking marathon...things not going as planned, but everything working out perfectly


After we dropped off Deb and Mark at the airport, we crashed for a while and had a totally lazy day after a crazy, awesome week. Peter couldn’t wait to give his mom DVD of the Sound of Music in Spanish. So we watched that in the evening and I had to laugh…the songs were in Spanish too and Yelsi and Peter both yelled at the same time, “NOOOOOOOOO!” Apparently, they thought only the talking would be translated and not the singing too. I found it to be amusing. We had visited an elderly man who has really bad arthritis and was waiting for a walker. Peter joked that their house was made for hobbits. We all had to duck a few times in their home to keep from hitting our heads. That night, the one volcano erupted. Mark and Deb were both jealous that they were already back in the States and missed it. The following day, we had the youth kids over in the evening. We had a great time playing some games, applying God’s love to the games. 2 guys came, sang songs, shared, and joined in with the games. Some of the older kids were attempting to use their English, while others were asking where zapato (Mark) and ganso (Conner) were and when they could come back. They sure loved you guys!

In the middle of the mall

The following day, Yelsi and I were going to San Lucas to Drew and Cindy Metcalf’s home. The plan was for Yelsi to stay at home with Carla for the weekend while the rest of us travel to Manos de Compasion (children’s home by the lake) to work with the kids there. Well, we started driving, hit the traffic…before it usually is bad, sat in standstill traffic for 2.5 hours, and decided to head back home til around 4am. So we picked up the rest of the crew…12 people in a jammed packed van, and went to the mall to spend the evening out. We had along a child who has been living with Drew and Cindy to heal from past trauma. He had been introduced to another guy who worked at a different home, Emmanuel, and they hit it off! It was amazing watching the 2 of them form a great connection and this guy’s patience with the child was amazing! On the way back, I had received word that the woman who we took to the hospital earlier in the week was worse and things weren’t looking too hot for her. It’s such a helpless feeling at times when you know it would be handled better in the States and instead, here, we’re waiting and stuck. For one thing, if you don’t have the money ahead of time, you can’t get stuff done, and the hospital can just boot you out if they don’t feel like dealing with something. On the way home from the mall, we were singing and prayed for her and her family. I was an emotional mess. After we finished the next song, Cindy made a comment that everyone had really good vibrato…I guess it was hitting others emotionally too.
Teaching moment on the roof of the van

The next morning, bright and early, we started the trip again to Manos. About 3 hours later, we arrived and jumped right in. Breakfast with the kids, worship and lesson, games/activities on the pista (airstrip), and some free time with the kids while Drew and Cindy worked with the kids at another home there. The theme of the weekend was about strengths and abilities that God has given us, teaching the story of Samson. While we were out on the pista playing games, we had to move off to the side for an airplane to take off. And then a little later, some cops showed up and while waiting for the person they wanted to talk to, Drew convinced the one to join in on the games. Oh my word, it was awesome! His partner videoed the whole thing. Priceless.


On Sunday morning, we all got together for home church. Honestly, I normally get the most out of home church at Manos with Drew and Cindy leading. And this time, it was pretty much top notch. Singing with kids who have been through more in their short lives than most of us in the States have in our lifetimes put together. Girls who have been raped, abused…kids who have been beaten, neglected, kicked out to the streets. But all are loved by God, can heal from their past hurts, and all have strengths given to them by God.


After the service, Natalie and Gabe led the home with the older girls in the sensory Gospel. I was so blessed to be a part of it. They go through different stations without talking. During the first station, they made something out of playdough, representing creation. Followed by drinking lime water for sin, finger painting with red and black paint, going to wash their hands in dirty water which just smeared around the paint, were blind folded and hands tied, and walked to the next station where they wait for a bit. Then, they were walked over to the washing station, get their hands unbound and cleaned, and blindfold removed. Next was communion, followed by gluing a piece of clay on a broken pottery bowl, representing restoration, healing, being made whole. The whole experience was amazing and humbling to be a part of. We could really tell that it made a huge impact on these girls.


After lunch that day, we packed up, said our goodbyes, and travelled home. The boy who has been staying with Drew and Cindy had a great weekend as well and even said on the way home that his best friend was the guy (Emmanuel) who had come along for the weekend to help with him. Emmanuel, you’re awesome! The following day, the Metcalfs and Natalie took a break and the rest of us spent time with the boy staying with us. He did an amazing job helping me to cook and bake: brownies, baked french toast with homemade gluten free bread, whoopie pies, and bacon wrapped chicken. He loved making the whoopie pies and bacon wrapped chicken. We had talked a lot about how he felt like he was doing and if there was anything he had been struggling with recently. At first, he didn’t really open up and would quickly change the subject. But that night, I had tucked him in bed (it was like when I was there for my 3 months and did this with my grandson every night!) and he just started pouring out his heart and everything he was thinking, feeling, and his past abuse/neglect. We had a great talk and prayed together. He’s definitely come a long way, but still has more healing up ahead. And of course, to wrap up my time, we played apples to apples and watched ER. The following morning, I started my very long travel back to PA. Eventful doesn’t even seem to be the right word to sum it up. Throw in the word frustrating….ridiculously amusing…now that I look back on it? It was opening day of our new building for the ED that I work in…maybe my crazy travel back was reflecting how it was going at work. Ha.

This last trip was my last short trip. I have purchased my one way ticket to Guatemala and will be arriving Feb 24…after my trips to Haiti and Uganda. It’s been crazy busy since I got back in June from my 3 month leave from work. And I’m sure it’ll continue to go fast! My last night at work will be Jan. 3. Conner is working on finishing touches to an official website and I’ll let you all know what the link is once that is up and running. It will have a donate tab on there (and it will lead you to the same website to donate that I have been sharing), blog updates, pictures from teams that come down, and a video explaining what all I will be doing down there. I just want to be clear about this (and I know quite a few people think I’m nuts to be doing all of these trips in a row…cough, cough, Chris, cough, cough…), but all money that is donated is going directly towards what we are doing in Guatemala: meds, labs and tests for patients, food for families who don’t have any, activities for kids, etc. These other trips are on my own time and just something I couldn’t pass up. I figured it was now or never at this point. So again, thank you for everyone who has donated, been praying, and put so much effort and encouragement towards all of this. We couldn’t be doing all of this without your help!! You guys are awesome! And quick update on the woman who was really sick and went to the hospital while I was there: she continues to be short of breath, unable to keep anything down, been vomiting, is diaphoretic, has pain in her throat. She has had labs, x-ray, and ultrasounds done (thanks to everyone who donated to help pay for her bills to get that stuff done! And for Peter and his mom, Estela for helping them so much and getting all of this done!). We are now waiting for her to see a local doctor and go from there. A biopsy is probably in her future. We have provided her and her family with some food as well since they don’t have any money at this time. Keep her and her family in your prayers. Anyone who would like to donate for the many people who need your help, here’s the link: www.cten.org/donnadelp

Enjoy some more pictures: 
This girl. Oh my word. Tiny with a whole lot of sass. Love her!

Cindy not even missing a beat when this girl came over and wrapped around her neck while playing

Can't take photo credit for this at all. Fuego erupting







Walking out to the pista

Playing games on the pista




I of course was loving holding him for all of the games. All was well while playing with the parachute until we went under it...not a fan of that!

She's even cuter in person! Healing well after cleft lip and palate surgery







More from the sensory Gospel









Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Cutting it close, Delpinator #teamzapato #helpdelp

“Cutting it close, Delpinator.” That’s the text I received when I wasn’t even home from work yet…but Mark had arrived at my house, ready for Dorothy to come and drive us to the airport. I was pulling my typical MO: work the same night that we need to head to the airport. And of course I still needed to stop to get a few last minute items to pack. I just laughed when I got that text and said, “I’m on my way home. We have time.” I finished my last minute packing, while Mark was pacing in my house. It was quite amusing to see how excited he was to go to Guatemala for the first time…getting his first stamp in his passport period. That was hilarious at immigration in Guatemala to be honest. I thought for sure he was going to try to crawl over the counter to watch the guy put a stamp in his passport. We arrived to Guatemala to be greeted by Deb and Peter. Everyone was exhausted, but so relieved and excited to be there. Once we arrived to Palin, we visited an elderly woman who was short of breath, had a distended abdomen, was dizzy, and was nauseated. We went to the pharmacy and got her some medications to try to help her. That night, we had the youth kids come for the evening. We were beyond exhausted by that point. I found everything amusing and Mark was in his hyper-tired mode. While playing beach volleyball, the ball kept getting caught in the tree. Mark used his awesome Spanish skills, took off his shoe, and yelled, “ZAPATO!!!!” and then would throw his shoe in the tree to try to knock the ball down. I was losing my crap at this point. Laughing so hard, I was crying. The kids thought it was absolutely hysterical and started calling Mark “zapato.” At one point, this one kid took Mark’s shoe and threw it straight up in the tree…but it was dark by this point and he didn’t see the shoe until the last second as it was coming straight for his face. That kid hit the ground so fast in an attempt to get out of the way! That whole scenario started the #teamzapato. Later that night, we played apples to apples the Spanish version. Mark won that easily. Nailed it! Lo clavaste! (The day Mark yelled ‘nailed it’ in Spanish, Peter’s mom laughed so hard. It was hysterical). I had warned Peter before we came that I didn’t think he knew what he was getting into with Deb and I together and then throw Mark in the mix….whew, buddy. I think he figured it out quickly on night one of us being there.

The next days were a blur of events. So much happened. We bought meds for our clinics, sorted everything out that we had all brought down for clinics (honestly, it was like Christmas! Especially for everything Deb brought down!!! ), serenaded by Mark playing the guitar…and singing for Frank the gecko, went to Antigua, picked up Yelsi to help translate, ran 2 clinics, got clotheslined by a tiny bag on a string like a kite (that kid screamed, thinking I killed her kite. Peter and I laughed so hard the whole way back to the house), taught Peter how to put in an IV (I volunteered to be poked and Deb volunteered to let me put an 18g in her to show him how to do it…but apparently I went too fast. No one at Reading would be surprised by that comment), played games, did activities with the neighborhood kids who live on the railroad tracks, and made amazing food (and Deb wore Mark’s sneakers just to walk to the other house and Peter’s mom laughed so hard once she found out that Deb…who wears like a size 6 shoe was wearing about a size 14 shoe), and had a birthday party for our October birthdays. And we all laughed…a lot! The random one liners that were said…absolutely hysterical. I think Deb won with having the most on the quote sheet we had.

We set up clinics in churches in 2 different villages closer to the sugarcane fields where it was pretty humid. We put out coloring pages and crayons for the kids and set up everything on tables or pews depending on what was available. It’s funny. Before we went, we had bought meds for it. Went down the list of meds that seemed pretty popular especially for the 3 months that I was there: meds for pneumonia, diarrhea, and fever. Those were the main things that pretty much every patient needed. So we bought plenty of meds to cover that. We came home and realized that we didn’t buy cough medicine. Later, Peter remembered they had meds left over at his mom’s house from previous medical teams/clinics. I went over and sorted through them: mostly cough medicine, liquid antibiotics, diabetic, gastritis, and allergy meds. We packed it, along with the meds we just bought. Both clinics: we went through that cough, diabetic, gastritis, and allergy medicine like crazy. God provides! I remember when I was working at the dump and resources were pretty limited and just when I was certain I was out of a medicine that I needed, I would find some more and would have just the right amount by the end of the day. I also bought a special ear wash thing and brought it down with me since Reyna was the queen of ear washes the whole time we did our medical team in March. We did a few ear washes this trip and since Reyna wasn’t here…I became the ear wash queen. Deb and Mark did awesome at adjusting to limited resources compared to the States, seeing different ailments than we do in the States, and banging them out. Reading taught us well how to keep it moving! At the end of the first clinic day, Mark took a picture of the empting out church as Deb and I finished up with the last patients. His comment: Deb and Donna cleaning out the waiting room like old times! Peter and Yelsi are amazing translators and sure know how to kick butt with medical teams! We just need to clone them. End of story.

There were a couple patients who really stuck out to me. Deb may have more to add to this…she was so self-sufficient as usual; she didn’t really need me to help get meds or assist with any triages. She was all over it as usual! This is why she could run the ED pretty much herself. (Miss working with you, FYI!!). We had a 12 ish yr old boy who had fever, RUQ pain, chest pain, vomiting, and just looked like crap. We gave him some meds and followed up with him a few days later to set up an appointment for an ultrasound if needed and he was feeling better. We had quite a few kids who saw us for the usual: fever, cough, some with diarrhea. This one kid was screaming bloody murder for Mark. It was amusing since when I came over, she stopped crying immediately. Mark was like, “Oh. Of course. Stops for Delp.” There were quite a few patients who came and were newly diagnosed with diabetes or didn’t have the correct medication to keep it controlled. So we provided them with some meds and diabetic teaching. After the first clinic, we went to the house of a family who had mentioned that the brother-in-law was urinating blood and couldn’t get out of bed because of having a stroke recently and really weak on one side. When we arrived, he’s in the hammock, unable to get up, has been urinating blood and having burning with urination. We provided him with antibiotics for a urine infection and then prayed with him. That was a special moment praying with him and his family. Peter’s mom prayed and most of us were teary by the end of it. He was so grateful for our help and being willing to come and see him.

There was a woman in her 30’s. Married and has 3 daughters. She had come to us because she had pain in her throat, short of breath, chest pain, dizziness, and looked like crap. She was pale, diaphoretic (sweaty). Heart rate was 120’s. We thankfully had some IV supplies with us and a liter of fluid. So we took her in the back room where there was a bed and conveniently a nail in the wall to hold up the bottle of fluids. I put in an 18g in her arm and we ran the fluids in as a bolus. It helped her heart rate greatly and she was down in the 70-80’s, but irregular and she was still really short of breath. She was telling me about how her husband had be laid off from work recently, didn’t have a source of income, has been to the doctor recently for this and given some anti-anxiety meds and a heart medication, but none of which were helping and she felt like she was just getting worse. We took her to a local public hospital, which we were warned wasn’t exactly the best. But it was the best we could do at that time. The previous night, Mark had showed us a TED talk about healthcare and how within the first 14 seconds on average, a patient will be cut off from what they are trying to say. Well, we arrived at this hospital and she went back to talk to a medic. She still had the IV in her arm and within 3 seconds of her and/or her husband trying to speak, the medic cut her off and didn’t let her explain why she was there/what was going on. Meanwhile, I’m standing there super annoyed at this point and then they put her out in the waiting room…IV still in arm…no vital signs taken…just to hang out and wait while she is continuing to struggle to breathe. We gave the husband some money to use for the tests since you have to pay up front to get anything done and we had to go back to where we had clinic set up. While trying to find where our driver went, Mark insisted on buying chicken that was made along the street. That boy sure loves his chicken! Meanwhile, Peter’s mom, Yelsi, and Deb had it all under control at clinic. They had cleaned house. Although, when I walked in, Deb shot me a look and I knew exactly what was going on. I know Deb’s facial expressions. She was trying to wrap it up with this one mother and she kept adding ailments for her son who wasn’t really complaining of anything. We finished up and debriefed about the medical system in Guatemala. That woman didn’t really get any medical treatment while at the hospital. Since we came back to the States, she has had labs, ultrasounds, and a chest xray done. She’s still really sick, short of breath, diaphoretic, now possibly has a fever intermittently, has been vomiting and unable to keep anything down for days, and is pretty weak. Continue to pray for her and her family. For those of you who have donated and been praying for her, thank you so much! Thank you doesn’t even seem like enough. But please know that you are making a huge impact in their lives and it’s greatly appreciated!! You are helping to pay for her medical bills so that she can have the labs and imaging done, paying for food for her and her family, and paying for her medications that we have been buying for her. So thank you so much!!
On Saturday, between clinic days, we had the kids from the railroad tracks at the house for Sunday school. We played games, sang songs, talked about a Bible story and did a craft with them making fish out of plates and letting them decorate them. It was so great to work with them again! They are great kids! So many have a pretty tough life. But that day and when we walked down to the tracks where they live and you can see for yourself where they live, you can see how poor of a community it is, but the kids are resilient and can have fun no matter what they have or don’t have. We watched some of the kids play marbles in the dirt and Mark made a comment, “Now that is how kids are supposed to play. Not with 8000 electronics in hand 24/7.” Plus, on the days we do activities with them, for many, it is their only time they can be just what they are: a KID. They don’t have to take care of their family while their parents are working or whatever else they are responsible for. But instead, can be a kid, take a break from their hard lives, and learn about how they are so loved by God.

On our last day together before Deb and Mark had to go back to the States, we hiked Pacaya, an active volcano. Peter was a beast and walked the whole thing. The rest of us were getting over our lovely coughs and had some help by going up majority of the way on horseback. Even though it was a cloudy day, it was still an amazing view. Most of us wore shorts and t-shirts. By the time we reached as high as we’re allowed to go, we could see our breath. Deb was so excited to finally be in Alaska spring weather! There was a shop near the top with jewelry made from lava and the guys there were awesome. They explained everything about Pacaya and then were really interested in our medical team and what all we had been doing on this trip. There were 2 dogs that live up there in a cave and one mother just had 8 puppies. We walked the rest of the way, on top of rock that was over lava. We were able to roast marshmallows in some of the holes that had steam coming up from the lava. We picked up some of the lava rocks to warm up our hands too since it was windy up there. That night, a girl who I helped while I was there on my 3 month trip came to the house to color and eat some food. She is such a sweet kid. She has been handed the raw end of the deal of life, but can still smile. Love that girl! I of course snuck her a piece of the no bake brownies we had made earlier in the week.

This is just the start of everything. Peter and I have discussed having medical teams come down and it finally happened! Huge thank you to Deb and Mark for being the guinea pigs and being the first ones to come down for our own clinics!! Thank you to those who have put so much time, effort, money, and prayers into this so far! If you would like to donate to help pay for meds, stuff to keep doing activities for the kids, food for people who don’t have any, etc….the list goes on honestly, here’s the link: cten.org/donnadelp
All donations are tax deductible. You guys truly are making a huge difference and we couldn’t do this without your help. Honestly. Thanks to Conner for giving us the idea for this hashtag…Mark for making the push to actually do it, and Deb for being the first one to use it officially: #helpdelp. Enjoy some more pictures from clinic, kids from the tracks, and hiking Pacaya!